I really wish I lived right next door, in the country, to my best friend. I'd settle for even a regular friend that I can trust and who has the same values. I want to be able to work as a team with another young mom, sharing responsibilities for the kids that run around in a pack all while the men-folk are at work. I want to strategize with her and trick the kids into playing/having fun/not being needy because they are so distracted so that I can get stuff done without feeling guilty for not paying attention to my kids.
In short, I'd like to live on a commune... even if we get mistaken for a hippie cult.